Love and Relationships
are good at friendships, but a bit when it comes to love. Of course they fall
in love, but their lovers always get the impression that they are more best
friends than paramours.
Like Capricorns, they are cool customers. They are not prone to displays of
passion or to outwards demonstrations of their affections. In fact, they feel
uncomfortable when their mate hugs and touches them too much. This does not
mean that they do not love their partners. They do, only they show it in other
ways. Curiously enough, in relationships they tend to attract the very things
that they feel uncomfortable with. They seem to attract hot, passionate,
romantic, demonstrative people. Perhaps they know instinctively that these
people have qualities they lack and so seek them out. In any event, these
relationships do seem to work, Aquarius coolness calming the more passionate
partner while the fires of passion warm the old-blooded Aquarius.
The qualities Aquarians need to develop in their love life are warmth,
generosity, passion and fun. Aquarians love relationships of the mind. Here
they excel. If the intellectual factor is missing in a relationship an Aquarian
will soon become bored or fell unfulfilled.
Home and Domestic Life
In family and domestic matters Aquarians can have a tendency to be
too non-conformist, changeable and unstable. They are as willing
to break the barriers of family constraints as they are those of
others areas of life.
Even so, Aquarians are very sociable people. They like to have a
nice home where they can entertain family and friends. Their house
is usually decorated modernly and full of state-of-the-art
appliances and gadgets – an environment Aquarians find absolutely
If their home life is to be healthy and fulfilling, Aquarians need
to inject it with a quality of stability – yes, even some
conservatism. They need at least one area of life to be enduring
and steady; this area is usually their home and family life.
Venus, the Planet of Love, rules the Aquarian’s 4th Solar House of
Home and Family as well, which means that when it comes to the
family and child-rearing, theories, cool thinking and intellect
are not always enough. Aquarians need to bring love into the
equation in order to have a great domestic life.